Dear Tahnia: Please understand that your membership was approved in spite of the fact that you answered that you do not understand what "spamming" is. Spamming, among other things, is a concerted effort to connect members with commercial offers. If someone does start spamming, they are detected and suspended very quickly. Our members will not connect with people outside of the site for security reasons. Please DO NOT ask the members for their personal email addresses, or other ways to connect with them privately. This will be construed as spamming and you will be immediately suspended.
Often times language can be a barrier; perhaps you did not know the meaning of the word "spamming", when you answered the enrollment question. In an effort to give our perspective members the benefit of doubt, your membership has been approved, and we welcome you to our little family.